Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Join Me in The Word

I have shared with many people over the years that I began reading the entire Bible in a year eleven years ago. It has been a wonderful journey that I encourage others to participate in as well. The key is to find a version of the Bible and a guide to help pace you through the year. This year I am reading again the English Standard Version (ESV) and using a guide that allows me to read the Bible chronologically. Here is a website that offers one such guide.
Bible in One Year - Chronological Guide
Join me in this adventure. I guarantee it will change your life.

God's blessings to you as you begin a new year in Him.

Thursday, December 18, 2008

Our God is Mighty to Save

I shared this message in chapel today...

The Birth of Jesus from Matthew 1:18-25 (The Message)
“The birth of Jesus took place like this. His mother, Mary, was engaged to be married to Joseph. Before they came to the marriage bed, Joseph discovered she was pregnant. (It was by the Holy Spirit, but he didn't know that.) Joseph, chagrined but noble, determined to take care of things quietly so Mary would not be disgraced.
While he was trying to figure a way out, he had a dream. God's angel spoke in the dream: "Joseph, son of David, don't hesitate to get married. Mary's pregnancy is Spirit-conceived. God's Holy Spirit has made her pregnant. She will bring a son to birth, and when she does, you, Joseph, will name him Jesus—'God saves'—because he will save his people from their sins." This would bring the prophet's embryonic sermon to full term:
Watch for this—a virgin will get pregnant and bear a son; They will name him Immanuel (Hebrew for "God is with us").
Then Joseph woke up. He did exactly what God's angel commanded in the dream: He married Mary. But he did not consummate the marriage until she had the baby. He named the baby Jesus.”

Let’s Pray…
Lord God, Heavenly Father
We gather around Your Word today remembering why you were born: to save Your people from their sins.
We celebrate the fact You loved us so much to send Jesus
Thank you for Your presence –
May the words of David praise you –
Let the words of my mouth ad the meditation of my heart
Be acceptable to You O Lord my Strength and my Redeemer. Amen

Good Morning
You guys look great today!
I love the Christmas season.
Every year I always find something new in it to celebrate, reflect on, thank God for.
As I think about a week from today, I am drawn to the question, “Why Christmas?”
When we are little, we think about what we get on Christmas
When we get older, we think about what we get on Christmas
When we really get older, we think about what we get on Christmas
Now don’t get me wrong
There are many who think about what they can give at Christmas, at least for a little bit
There are some who don’t even think about Christmas, beyond the hassles it brings in their life, or the bad memories it conjures up.
For many people, this whole season isn’t a season of joy
It is a season of sorrow and pain
Of sadness and being alone
For them, Christmas isn’t a season of power, but a time a time of stress.
And that’s too bad – but not a stretch.
Think about it.
What hell must have been like when Christ was sent to earth, Satan wanted nothing more than to derail God’s plan of salvation. It must have been an all out attack, and yet God would not be denied.
He wouldn’t be denied because He had had the prophets tell of His birth for thousands of years.

The prophet Isaiah, moved by the Spirit of God, foretells the birth of a child: (Isaiah 9:6)
"For a child will be born to us, a son will be given to us; and the government will rest on His shoulders; and His name will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Eternal Father, Prince of Peace."

Secondly, the Christ has to be born in Bethlehem. In the prophecies of Micah we find the following words: (Micah 5:2)
"But as for you, Bethlehem Ephrathah, too little to be among the clans of Judah, from you One will go forth for Me to be ruler in Israel. His goings forth are from long ago, from the days of eternity."

And finally we will turn to one more prophecy - the prophecy of Isaiah (7:14):
"Therefore the Lord Himself will give you a sign: Behold, a virgin will be with child and bear a son, and she will call His name Immanuel."

These are just a few of the 31 prophesies that identify Jesus as the Savior of the World.

At the time Jesus lived estimates indicate there were approximately 250 million people on earth
The probability of all of this happening to one single male, is

1 out of 2.54 x 10 to the 28th power


To illustrate, lets start with an American coin, a dime, which is approximately, 3/4 inch in diameter and 1/16 inches high.

Now imagine that someone takes the earth and hollows it out and starts filling it with dimes. He/she would need to fill 10 earths full of dimes to represent all of the chances associated with these prophecies. Next let us paint one of the dimes red. Now, the probability that one person fulfilled all of these prophecies by chance would be the same as one blindfolded person picking that one red dime the first time.

Yet, history and the Bible show us that these things are all true of Jesus. The prophecies tell us that Jesus is the Messiah - He is God.

That really is the bottom line of the Christmas season.

The story is true. Jesus was born. He did become a man. He did die, and He did rise on the third day. He did all of this to save us from our sins. He had to die so you and I won’t have to. We will all live forever somewhere – either with God or away from Him. I want all of you to be with Jesus one day in heaven. That is what He wants too, but He’ll never force that on you. It is your choice to reject his gift or not.

We are going to have tough days in our life – no doubt.
John 16:33 states the words from Jesus Himself, “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world."

That is a message of hope that we all need to be reminded of. It is a message of hope that those who are losing hope in these economic times need to hear. Jesus is bigger than anything we face! He is our hope!

The song I asked the band to play for us next is not a song you’ll find on a Christmas album but I think it is the perfect Christmas song.

Jesus came to save us from our sins. He came to give us hope!

He is a God who is Mighty to Save!
Reflect on the words as you sing them today
Our God is Mighty to Save!
Thank you for listening.

Merry Christmas!

Thursday, December 11, 2008

Why We Emphasize Christian Character Development

A disturbing study released this past week highlighted the need for helping high school students work through what is right and wrong.

The Ethics of American Youth - 2008 Summary


Here are some highlights...
STEALING. In bad news for business, more than one in three boys (35 percent) and one-fourth of the girls (26 percent) — a total of 30 percent overall — admitted stealing from a store within the past year. It s somewhat less in religious schools.

LYING. More than two of five (42 percent) said that they sometimes lie to save money. Again, the male-female difference was significant: 49 percent of the males, 36 percent of the females. In 2006, 39 percent said they lied to save money (47 percent males, 31 percent females).
39% in religious schools – 83% lied to parents (on a significant item)

CHEATING. Cheating in school continues to be rampant and it’s getting worse. A substantial majority (64 percent) cheated on a test during the past year (38 percent did so two or more times), up from 60 percent and 35 percent, respectively, in 2006. There were no gender differences on the issue of cheating on exams. 63% from students in religious schools

Is it worse than it appears?

As bad as these numbers are, it appears they understate the level of dishonesty exhibited by America’s youth. More than one in four (26 percent) confessed they lied on at least one or two questions on the survey. Experts agree that dishonesty on surveys usually is an attempt to conceal misconduct.

Despite these high levels of dishonesty, the respondents have a high self-image when it comes to ethics. A whopping 93 percent said they were satisfied with their personal ethics and character and 77 percent said that when it comes to doing what is right, I am better than most people I know.

Lots of work to do in helping our kids…

Thank you for your partnership!

Saturday, November 15, 2008

Character Moments

All of our Character Moments this year are posted on LuTube. Check out the videos the students and faculty are doing to promote positive character within our school community!

Thursday, November 6, 2008

Blood Drive Update

From our Student Activities Director, Mrs. Webster.

Thank you to all of you for your cooperation and patience yesterday during the Blood Drive. I also appreciate those of you who came in to donate. The drive was very successful! We collected 89 units of blood which means we have the potential of saving 267 lives! Thanks again for working with us for this worthy cause.

Friday, October 31, 2008

Book Reviews

I can't remember the last time I read fictional book. Over the weekend, on a trip to Memphis, TN, I read William P. Young's "The Shack." It was a quick read and an interesting story. I would recommend it, providing the reader does understand it is fiction.

On my return trip, I read the new book from Pastor Francis Chan called "Crazy Love." Even if you don't read the book, his website is wonderful and the chapter videos are well done and thought provoking.

Have a wonderful week!

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

Banning fullback is OK

For those at the homecoming game last Friday...

From DailyBreeze.com
Article Launched: 10/13/2008 11:30:48 PM PDT

The initial reports on injured Banning fullback Joel Panteau appear positive after a major scare on Friday night, when he was injured on the final play of Banning's 42-7 nonleague loss at Orange Lutheran and was taken by paramedics to a local hospital.

Banning coach Chris Ferragamo said Saturday that an MRI revealed only a pinched nerve in his neck and that Panteau was released from Hoag Memorial Hospital in Newport Beach at around 3 a.m. on Saturday.

"It's a very positive thing," Ferragamo said. "His shoulder is fine and he's recuperating well. They didn't keep him at the hospital overnight. His MRI proved well. It looks like he's going to be OK."

Ferragamo said Panteau will miss at least two weeks, but the coach was thankful the injury was not more serious. Panteau was given the ball on a draw foron the final play of the game. He was brought down by his shoulders, and his head was pulled back in what Ferragamo called a "freaky-type thing."

"I've had players with dislocations on shoulders and fingers. I've had broken legs, but not a serious neck injury," Ferragamo said. "You get players with stingers all the time, but that goes away pretty quick. It's like hitting your crazy bone.

"We do a lot of work on our necks at practice to try and prevent this kind of thing."

Monday, October 13, 2008

Great Movie

My wife and I attended the movie "Fireproof" last Saturday evening. It is a powerful movie with a great message and terrific sound track. In looking on YouTube, I did find the music by one of the contributors, John Waller. The song, "While I'm Waiting" challenges us to be confident in the times we wait on the Lord for His direction.

The words from Isaiah 40:27-31 from "The Message"
"Why would you ever complain, O Jacob,
or, whine, Israel, saying,
"God has lost track of me.
He doesn't care what happens to me"?
Don't you know anything? Haven't you been listening?
God doesn't come and go. God lasts.
He's Creator of all you can see or imagine.
He doesn't get tired out, doesn't pause to catch his breath.
And he knows everything, inside and out.
He energizes those who get tired,
gives fresh strength to dropouts.
For even young people tire and drop out,
young folk in their prime stumble and fall.
But those who wait upon God get fresh strength.
They spread their wings and soar like eagles,
They run and don't get tired,
they walk and don't lag behind."

Have a great week!

Open House, Tuesday, Oct. 14th @ 6pm

I am looking forward to tomorrow night's Open House. It is always fun to welcome prospective families and students to the campus. My role will be to share our mission and values with those that gather in the Nechita Center.

If you know someone that could benefit from the ministry we provide at Orange Lutheran, please encourage them to attend. If they are unable to attend but would still like information, ask them to call the Admission's office at 714.998.5151, x603.

Saturday, October 4, 2008

Gala to Homecoming

What a great week this is as we kick it off with the 6th annual Gala on October 4th. This year's event is completely sold out (500+ attendees) and it will be a spectacular night. We conclude a busy homecoming week with the game and dance next Friday and Saturday. The first six weeks of school have flown by, and God's presence has been felt in mighty ways.

Just when we think we are settling in on this year, our focus expands to next year with our Open House, scheduled for Tuesday, October 14th. We will be doing some advertising on "The Fish - 95.9FM" during the next week to encourage families to come and see what Orange Lutheran is all about.

Thursday, September 4, 2008

Desiring God

On my walks in the morning, I have learned to listen to podcasts. One of my favorite speakers is a pastor from Minnesota named John Piper. His website is called Desiring God. He has many resources there that you too might enjoy.

The other site I have listened to recently is from the folks who make the Passion cd's. It is called the 268 generation. One of the leaders of this site is a pastor from Atlanta named Louie Giglio.

Listening to a podcast is a great way to strengthen your walk in Christ. Have a great week!

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Character Moment– August 27, 2008

Greater Things

“There is a story about when “President Lyndon Johnson visited NASA and as he walked the halls he came across a janitor who was cleaning up a storm, like the Energizer bunny with a mop in his hand.

The President walked over to the janitor and told him he was the best janitor he had ever seen and the janitor replied, ‘Sir, I’m not just a janitor, I helped put a man on the moon.’ …even though he was cleaning floors he had a bigger purpose and vision for his life. This is what kept him going and helped him excel in his job.”

Whenever we can see our role in life as a part of something bigger than ourselves it is motivating. It also creates an energy that can really fire us up to do our very best.

The song we sang on Monday in chapel had a wonderful lyric that reminds us that God has a bigger plan for us as well. (from God of this City)

Greater things have yet to come
Great things are still to be done
In this city
Greater things are still to come
And greater things are still to be done here

I believe that about Orange Lutheran. God does want to do greater things here. As you begin this year, I encourage you to keep your focus on being a servant to others. Help others become better in Him. Watch how God will use you to accomplish greater things for Him.

That is the formula for a successful year!

Friday, August 22, 2008

This is the Truth

I had a chance to speak Thursday night at our New Student Orientation to the parents of our new freshmen and transfers. I opened with a video clip called "This is the Truth." It is a pretty powerful piece. I found the link to it on YouTube.

As I shared with the people gathered in the Nechita Center, the video tells a lot about what happens at Orange Lutheran. We have a hope in Jesus Christ, and we want nothing more than to share that hope with our students and their families.

God's richest blessings on your school year.

For His Glory!
GAP

Sunday, August 3, 2008

Summer Letter to Parents and Students

July 2008


Dear Lancer parents,

I hope you have had a wonderful summer and our preparing for a great year with you student(s) at Orange Lutheran. As principal these past eleven years, I have had many wonderful moments to celebrate with our community. Our students have continued to rise to new levels with their talents and abilities. They are a joy to be around.

Over the years I have seen some of our students battle with the pressures of drugs and alcohol. The Parent Pledge program was designed several years ago to develop a partnership with families and the school to discourage use of these substances. This year, I am happy to announce another deterrent for our students.

Beginning with the 2008-2009 school year, Orange Lutheran High School will implement a random drug-testing program for our students. I have attached an explanation of the procedure and how it will be implemented. We will be random in the day of the week students are tested and also the method. We will use both hair and urine tests. An outside collection agency and lab will process the results. I really believe that this program will give many of our students the “out” that they need when confronted with the temptation to use illegal drugs. Being able to say, “My school tests us,” should be a good excuse that can get them away from an uncomfortable situation.

Please examine the enclosed information. We will be discussing this further at our new student orientation meeting and also back-to-school night. Thank you for your cooperation in advance.

be God’s,


Gregg A. Pinick
Executive Director


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Drug Testing Program

Orange Lutheran High School is a community fully committed to providing an environment that is free from illegal drugs and alcohol. In Paul’s first letter to the Corinthians, he encourages them with the following words: “So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.” Recognizing that the use of drugs and alcohol by students is inconsistent with the Biblical admonition that the body “is a temple of the Holy Spirit,” and that the use of drugs and alcohol is detrimental to the health and safety of the students, Orange Lutheran High School has instituted a school wide mandatory random drug testing program as a proactive approach to a truly drug free school. The purpose of this program is threefold:

1. To provide for the health and safety of all students.
2. To reduce effects of peer pressure by providing a legitimate reason for students to refuse to use illegal drugs.
3. To encourage students who use drugs to participate in drug treatment programs.

The emphasis of our program is placed on a proactive approach in maintaining a drug free school. This random testing program is designed to create a safe, drug-free environment for our school community and to assist students in getting help when needed.

STUDENT SELECTION
Each week students will be randomly selected from the student body at large to provide samples. Students will also be selected for testing if there is a reasonable suspicion that they may have drugs in their system. Reasonable suspicion could be based on some of, but not limited to, the following circumstances:

1. Behavioral conduct that causes reasonable suspicion to believe that there is the presence of illegal or unauthorized drugs in an individual’s body fluids based upon specific personal observations concerning behavior, speech, actions, and/or body odors.

2. Other circumstances which would indicate that an individual is reporting to school in other than a sober and reliable state, free from the influence of drugs.

Once a student has been selected for a test, his/her name will not be withdrawn from the pool of names for subsequent testing.

SAMPLE COLLECTION
Samples will be collected by a certified outside collection agency who will maintain a confidential chain of custody for each specimen. Samples will be collected at an appropriate time on the same day the student is selected for testing. If the student is absent on the day they are selected, then the sample will be collected on the day the student returns to school.

CONSEQUENCES
First Positive Test
When a student is identified with a positive test, the student must:
1. Participate in a substance abuse counseling program consisting of a minimum of personal counseling (frequency and duration of visits to be determined and documented by the therapist). This counseling must be provided by a professional licensed therapist and is to begin within two weeks of notification being made.

2. After 30 days from the original testing, the student will be tested at least twice per month for an undetermined period of time. This additional testing will be at the expense of the parents/guardian and the results must be made available to the school.

3. The student’s name remains in the pool for future random testing.

Second Positive Test
Should a student be identified with a second positive test, the student will be required to withdraw from Orange Lutheran High School. The second positive test consequence applies over a four year period or as long as the student is enrolled at Orange Lutheran High School.

Students who refuse to be tested, fail to arrive for testing, attempt to falsify or contaminate a sample, or otherwise violate a provision of the drug-testing program will be issued the same consequences as a first positive test.

For those students with a documented medical history demonstrating the need for regular use of a prescription drug or over-the-counter medication, a verification signed by a licensed medical practitioner will be required. Students who refuse to provide verification and test positive will be subject to the consequences listed above for positive tests.

PARENT NOTIFICATION
All test results will be sent directly from the lab to the school via a secure email account. All information will be held in the utmost confidence by LHSOC. Parents will only be contacted when the results are positive.

EXTRA-CURRICULAR ACTIVITIES
Students participating in extracurricular activities who test positive for substance abuse will have additional penalties imposed on them as outlined in the Extracurricular Code of Conduct.

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

Character Moment #31 – May 14, 2008

Mrs. Young shared an article with me recently that came from the San Diego Tribune. The article, an opinion piece, was titled, “High school scandal.”[1] I would like to it with you today.

'Our worst technological nightmare has just occurred,” the memo began. The assistant principal at Rancho Bernardo High, Keith Koelzer, described how eight Advanced Placement students hacked into the school's network, stole tests, altered grades and changed transcripts. “They are all smart,” he concluded, “but they have no wisdom.”

He recounted the heartbreak of one boy's parents, the shamed silence of an uninvolved classmate who knew a month earlier but did not speak up.

This scandal has clouded eight bright futures; it has disgraced Rancho Bernardo High and the acclaimed Poway Unified School District. While an embarrassed district tried to hide the scandal, don't place the ethical failure on the schools. Remember, “It takes a village to raise a child.”

By contrast, an ethical success story has occurred each year since 1990 in the East County. The East County Chamber of Commerce and Grossmont Union High School District bring 150 high school seniors and 40 adult facilitators together for a morning of discussions on ethical situations. The lead case study this year was from Harvard in 2005. Some 119 high school seniors used a stolen password to peak in and see if they had been accepted for admission. Some 119 seniors lost their Harvard careers to an ethical lapse.

Doug Deane, president of DSD Business Systems of San Diego, is ethics program director. Next year's ethical dilemma, he expects, will be from Rancho Bernardo High.

Typically, on issues like this, Deane said, “The kids have super-optimism, that they will not get caught. They have a sense of entitlement, they deserve it.” Typically, their support system fails them.

The ethics program, while unique, costs under $1,000, and Deane and the East County chamber are quite willing to share.

Children learn ethics from adults: coaches, youth organization leaders, Sunday School teachers and more. They also learn from peers. What if a classmate had had the courage to speak up?

It does take a village.”

A great story for us to think about. We can help one another develop our character when we hold each other accountable.

Character Moment #32 – May 21, 2008

As I think about our last two character moments of the year, this week and next week, I reflect today on a couple of events that have recently happened that underscore the importance of striving to have excellent character.

Over the weekend I was in my hometown in Kansas attending my nephew’s high school graduation. On Saturday morning I made a trip to Wal-Mart to buy a few things. I went through the checkout line and paid for my purchases and then went out to my car. While I was putting things away in the car I noticed that I had an item in my cart that I had not paid for.

It would have been easy to get in the car and go home, but I couldn’t do it. I went back into the store and paid for the item explaining that I had taken it out by mistake. The lady said three or four times, thank you for your honesty sir – thank you for your honesty. It made me think that she probably saw more dishonesty than honesty during a typical day. For me, it was a no brainer. God won’t bless our deception.

Saturday was also a special day in that our boys’ track team did something that no other boys’ track team in 35 years had ever done – it won a CIF championship. At least we thought we did. After the CIF reviewed the meet, it realized a judge had made an incorrect ruling when he had disqualified a runner from another school. Those points, when given back to the school, put us in second place.

I received an email from Coach Preus on Monday morning explaining the situation. He said…”I believe that this is the right call. If we were on the other side of this, we would feel wronged. We have a sport that allows 48 hours to right these wrongs. While I am disappointed that the mistake was made, I agree that (they) should get what they earned.” In this morning’s Orange County Register, he is also quoted as saying, “"The last thing we want to do is win a title in which someone was unjustly disqualified from an event." In fact the head of the meet, Mr. Bob McGuire, called me this morning and said the reaction to this turnaround of events by Mr. Preus and the track team shows, “no better example of what we are trying to do as a school.”

Very classy. And that is the way it should be. It was the right response in a disappointing situation. We want to take the high road in all things, striving to be a people who are honest. Class and dignity will bring you great blessings in life and will make lasting impressions on those you meet along the way. When you choose to do the right thing, you’ll have no regrets!

Wednesday, May 7, 2008

Character Moment #30 – May 7, 2008

A great lesson in character occurred on April 26 at a women’s softball game between Western Oregon and Central Washington. It was a league game between two universities battling for a chance to go to the playoffs. It was senior day for Western Washington.

In the top of the 2nd inning, Western Oregon had runners on first and second and a seldom used senior named Sara Tucholsky came to bat. Now Sara had never hit a homerun before, but this time she really connected and the ball sailed over the fence. Her teammates were ecstatic until they realized that Sara had fallen down after touching first base. She had planted wrong and had blown out her knee, and was now beyond first base lying on the ground, writhing in pain.

The other two runners crossed home plate, but the rules were interpreted by the umpires that Sara had to touch all the bases for it to be ruled a homerun. If a member of her own team touched her the homerun would be nullified. Sara would have to get to all the bases without the help of her teammates. The only problem was she could not move. Her coach was going to have to substitute for her and her hit would be ruled a two-run single. Just before he spoke to the umpire, another voice spoke up and said, “Excuse me, would it be OK if we carried her around and she touched each bag?” That voice came from Mallory Holtman, the career home run leader from Western Washington, the opposing team.

Mallory and fellow teammate Liz Wallace picked up Sara and carried her to every base, gently touching her foot to the bag. They carried her home, and helped her achieve her first homerun. People that watched the situation cheered and cried because they knew it was even bigger than they had witnessed.

You see, Mallory was a senior too and this was her last chance to make the playoffs in her career. When she helped Sara get home, she did so in spite of the fact that her team would be down by three runs. Mallory and her teammates played the rest of the game to win, but they came up one run short, losing 4-3. Because of their kindness and outstanding character, their team did not advance to the playoffs.

After the game Mallory said, “"I think that happening on Senior Day, it showed the character of our team. … granted I thought of it, but everyone else would have done it. It's something people will talk about for Senior Day. They won't talk about who got hits and what happened and who won; they'll talk about that. And it's kind of a nice way to go out, because it shows what our program is about and the kind of people we have here." [1]

It is great when we hear about people who let their character direct their priorities. What a great lesson for all of us.

Thursday, May 1, 2008

Orange Lutheran has a new Principal

Mrs. Leslie Smith has been named as the new principal of Orange Lutheran High School. Mr. Scott Fogo will become the new Assistant Principal. God has led us two great leaders.

Character Moment #29 – April 30, 2008

A friend of mine told me a story recently about their visit to a restaurant a while back. Sitting close by at a table was a group of high school students. It was a mixed group (guys and girls), and they were just hanging out. They spoke loudly at times, and he could over hear that the language they were using was laced with profanities. It was not a very attractive sight. At one point another customer came up to them and reminded them that they were in a public place and that their language was offensive. The students reacted by rolling their eyes, not saying anything directly, and really trying to ignore the admonishment. My friend said it looked like some in the party were embarrassed and others were too cool to look that way. Pretty typical for some kids when they get caught messing up.

I believe we have those moments in our life when we get a chance to put our character training to the test. It is in those times that our true character comes out. Out in public, on our own, where nobody knows us, we let our true character shine through.

I think it is easier to follow the rules per say in an environment where you know someone could be watching, like here at school. The ability to resist acting in an inappropriate way is sometimes easier in that environment. Our true tests though are when we are out in public, where we act a certain way because that’s who we are, not necessarily because we are supposed to act a specific way.

Think back to those times when you go out with friends in public. How do you act when there are no parents or coaches, or teachers around? Is it consistent with the model that you want to portray as a child of God?

Many of you will have a great opportunity to show your true character this weekend as you attend the prom. You will interact with many people who will only know you through what they see you do and hear you say. Let your witness be a light to those around you.

Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Character Moment #28 – April 23, 2008

Yesterday I had the great opportunity to attend Coach Poncy’s memorial service. It was an amazing celebration of a man who touched so many people with Christ’s love. He was a model of what excellence in Christian character is about.

As I listened to the various speakers, some friends, some family, even our own Coach Preus, I started to write down the words they used to describe him. What a tribute it was. They used words and phrases like…

He was a person that represented trust, honor, integrity, and respect. He understood the responsibility he had as a call to duty, as a call to serve others.

His family said he left a legacy over four generations. He modeled accountability, care for others, and remembered the little things that made others feel important. He shared the good news.

He was a mentor, a life coach, and a prayer warrior. He valued friendships, relationships, and loved kids. He was a leader that would be followed anywhere. He was trustworthy, an encourager, a teacher, and a coach. He made everyone feel good. He wanted everyone to be a part of the team. People said they were better because they had him in their lives.

He was a peacemaker. He always had time for others. He used every moment of every day to accomplish something. He was inclusive – not exclusive. He was compelled by Christ. He was consistent in his life and ministry. They were one and the same.

Coach Poncy affected so many people with the good news of Jesus Christ. He would want us all to do the same.

The words of Hebrews 13:7 (NIV) remind us of how we should remember Coach Poncy, “Remember your leaders, who spoke the word of God to you. Consider the outcome of their way of life and imitate their faith. “

Coach Poncy was a person to imitate. For those of you that are still hurting from his loss or from other things in your life, may you feel the presence of Christ, and be surrounded by His peace.

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

Character Moment #27 – April 16, 2008

Today is a tough day for many in our Lancer community. One of our long time track and cross country coaches, Mr. Guy Poncy, died yesterday afternoon after working out at Peters Canyon. Coach Poncy and his wife had two daughters that graduated from Orange Lutheran and had been a part of the Orange Lutheran family as a coach, substitute teacher, and parent for many years.

He was a man who had a passion for the Lord. His love for Jesus was evident to all he encountered. Coach Poncy rode his bike many days at practice and at meets. His love for the students here at Orange Lutheran was very evident. His email address was run4him2@socal.rr.com . The him was Jesus.

It is hard when someone we know and care for leaves this earth. Knowing Coach Poncy, he would say that the tears today should not be for him, for he is enjoying the promises that he believed in his life. He knows today that God is faithful and His words are true.

Coach Poncy was a man of great character, and one that will be missed by many including his wife and daughters. Let’s take a moment and ask God for His peace and comfort to all who mourn the end of his earthly life today.

Please join me in prayer.

Heavenly Father,

We thank you for your servant, Guy Poncy, for his faith and witness to those who were placed in his life. We thank you for his faith and model to us while he was with us and know that he is now with you claiming Your free gift of eternal life.

Bless his wife Rennetta and daughters Tiffany and Kristie as they miss their husband and father. Give them that peace that surpasses all understanding, and surround them with people who will comfort them with your love and care.

For our students and staff I also ask for that peace and comfort as well Lord. I thank you for faithfulness and for the eternal life we received when Your Son died and rose again for our sins.

All these things we lay before His throne. To You alone be the glory.

Amen.

Character Moment #26 – April 9, 2008

Have you ever seen a person that is trying to deceive others, having the look of being legit, but in reality not having any integrity? It’s like the person that dresses up a mannequin and places them in the car so they can drive in the carpool lane and avoid congestion. I have a friend that pulled up along a driver that did this and saw the fake passenger. Then as the car pulled away he noticed that he had a fish decal on the back of his car. I am sure there were people that saw him that day that thought, “typical Christian.” It can be frustrating to send a message out like that when the real message of the saving love of Christ is the one that people need to see and hear.

I wonder sometimes if Orange Lutheran is a “safe place to be in sin?” What I mean is I know some in our community are just struggling with certain behaviors that really have them in their grasp. Because we have enough Christian activity, enough good stuff happening, a person could pretty much hide out and not have to face those things that are bringing them down. They can pretend they are doing the right thing, like the guy with the mannequin.

I would hope that we are a school that is “a safe place to be broken.” We all have times in our lives when we need to be broken, so that we can become the people God desires for us to become. Become people who are abiding, walking, living in Him. Allowing Him to fill us with His glory.

Living life as a Christian poser is a dangerous life to live. Humbling ourselves and allowing God to change our lives is powerful. Believing in the power He has to forgive us of all of our wrong doings is freeing. It is my prayer for us all that God will expose those things in our lives that keep us from having a true relationship with Him. It is within that relationship that our true character lies.[i]


[i] thoughts from Todd Proctor, Rock Harbor, 2.24.08, “the last week of Jesus – Monday”

Thursday, April 3, 2008

Character Moment #25 – April 2, 2008

I have shared with you that one of the things I do on a daily basis is read the Bible. I started this 11 years ago and it has been a blessing ever since. The version I picked this year was “The Message” by Eugene Peterson. This past week I was reading from Luke 6 and came across these words. The sub heading was…Work the Words into Your Life…

43-45"You don't get wormy apples off a healthy tree, nor good apples off a diseased tree. The health of the apple tells the health of the tree. You must begin with your own life-giving lives. It's who you are, not what you say and do, that counts. Your true being brims over into true words and deeds.

46-47"Why are you so polite with me, always saying 'Yes, sir,' and 'That's right, sir,' but never doing a thing I tell you? These words I speak to you are not mere additions to your life, homeowner improvements to your standard of living. They are foundation words, words to build a life on.[1]

Powerful words. You know people like that though that always say the right thing or come off as the people who are the most respectful, but they are not. It is a show, it’s a game. It is not truthful, it is not sincere.

Maybe you are that person. Respectful on the outside, but on the inside, your true personality, you could care less. Well I tell you that people see through the fa̤ade Рthe phoniness.

Luke went on in that passage with words of Christ that really challenge us to be a person of character.

48-49"If you work the words into your life, you are like a smart carpenter who dug deep and laid the foundation of his house on bedrock. When the river burst its banks and crashed against the house, nothing could shake it; it was built to last. But if you just use my words in Bible studies and don't work them into your life, you are like a dumb carpenter who built a house but skipped the foundation. When the swollen river came crashing in, it collapsed like a house of cards. It was a total loss." [2]

Being a person of character is smart – Christ says so. Being phony, not sincere, is dumb. And if you chose to live your life that way, at some time your life will crumble around you.

These are hard words today, but important to hear. It is my prayer that God’s Spirit will stir up our school to be a community that values character. That our words and our actions will honor Him every day!


[1] The Message (MSG) Copyright © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene H. Peterson, NAVPRESS

[2] Ibid.

Tuesday, March 25, 2008

Character Moment #24 – March 19, 2008

Tomorrow kicks off one of my favorite days of the year, the beginning of March Madness: the NCAA Men’s Basketball Tournament. Sixty-four teams with the opportunity to be crowned national champion in a little over two weeks. It is exciting, and almost everyone fills out their brackets to see if they can guess the winner.

What is interesting is that the games on the first two days of the tournament are shown when most people are at work or school. Researchers estimate that the loss of productivity nationwide around the tournament is nearly $1.7 billion dollars. CBS internet will show all the games and even has a “boss button” that quickly brings up a spreadsheet so that it looks like someone is working instead of watching the games.

Watching the tournament is exciting though, especially when an unlikely team can upset another team like Valparaiso University did a few years ago when Bryce Drew hit “the shot” to beat Mississippi State. He will always be remembered for that shot and the university gained much exposure worldwide because of his heroics.

While the tournament itself can be a fun event, many people suffer greatly by getting caught up in the excitement and betting money illegally. “The FBI estimates that of the $2.5 billion Americans gamble on the NCAA tournament each year, only $80 million is legally bet through bookmakers in Nevada.” Some of this may appear to be harmless, but there are many people who lose their sense of good judgment and go way overboard by betting recklessly.

So how does this tie in to excellence in Christian character? It is probably like going 75mph when the speed limit is 60mph. We can all justify why we do something, but sometimes it is important to ask ourselves are we staying in bounds. Picking winners in the NCAA tournament isn’t a bad thing. Getting so caught up in a pool that it affects our job and our relationships is.

For the record, I root for the same team every year to win the tournament. Go Jayhawks!

Friday, March 14, 2008

Character Moment #23 – March 12, 2008

Have you ever been in a situation where you just knew you would be better off to lie or cover up what you had done wrong? No one would most likely find out, so what would be the point of confessing a mistake. In fact, if you told someone the truth, you might even have to suffer an unpleasant consequence. What would be the point in that? I think that is a pretty easy lie to buy into. If we don’t have to tell the truth why should we?

Stephen Lim wrote in his article, “Telling the Truth - Does it Pay?”[1] wrote the following…

“We are a nation of liars. In a national survey 91 percent of Americans admitted to lying regularly. Thirty-six percent confessed to telling serious lies which hurt others, are totally self-serving or break the law. Does it pay to tell the truth? If others lie, aren't we putting ourselves at a disadvantage if we don't? Working my way through school, I delivered special delivery mail for the U.S. Postal Service. Each morning the dispatcher handed drivers a pile of letters and packages. Before starting our route, we recorded the number of stops we had to make. While the other drivers padded their figures, I didn't. This made me look bad in comparison, lowering the supervisor's opinion of my performance. This consequence was minor, however, compared to those (consequences) suffered by (the) many who choose honesty. Consider a few: Because they do not cheat on assignments and tests to boost their grades, some fail to get into the college of their choice. Others don't succeed in getting a coveted job because they refuse to puff their resume. ‘It's harder and harder to be an honest person,’ laments Michael Josephson. ‘You feel like a jerk in a world where other people are getting ahead by taking shortcuts.’”

He concludes his article by sharing why we should tell the truth.

“Why should we tell the truth? The Bible commands: ‘You shall not give false testimony against your neighbor’ (Exodus 20:16), and ‘Speak the truth in love’ (Ephesians 4:15). While we may simply follow this standard in a dutiful way, we obey with greater conviction when we grasp the reasons behind it. God gave us his commandments in order ‘that we might always prosper’ (Deuteronomy 6:24). In what ways does telling the truth benefit us? He listed four reasons.

  1. Healthy relationships require trust.
  2. Society deteriorates when falsehood multiplies.
  3. Lies also create stress.
  4. Most importantly, we tell the truth because God wants us to reflect his nature and spirit. The Bible says, "God...does not lie" (Titus 1:2), and "it is impossible for God to lie” (Hebrews 6:18).

We need to be led by “the Spirit of truth” John 14:17, instead of the spirit of deception. While lying seems less serious than many offenses, it reflects a direction of life, moving us away from the God of truth. For this reason we should avoid even white lies. Many lies seem of little consequence, but the cumulative effect erodes the character of truth in us.

Lying may give us an immediate advantage. But consider the eventual costs—the breakdown of relationships with people and God. In the short-term, truth-telling doesn't seem to pay, but it rewards us with what's important—relationships of trust, peace of mind and spiritual health.”

Character Moment #22 – March 5, 2008

I enjoyed listening to Mr. Reece’s story yesterday in chapel of the wrestlers who took a stand for Christ, even to the point of death. I just wonder how many of us could ever do it? When faced with death would we be like the guy that walked off the lake to safety or be one of the remaining 39 that stood for Christ so powerfully that their faith led another to join them?

What tremendous character those men had as they knew their lives were on the line, yet they would not flinch; they would not back down.

In your life you will meet all types of people with all levels of character. People who are known as having high character are memorable. They are people that leave a positive impression on us. You will also encounter those whose character is lacking. Some might say they have questionable character. These are the folks who are seldom trusted, because they tend not to be genuine in their dealings with others.

In life you make the decision to be a person of high character or low character. It is developed by the many decisions that you make repeatedly over time. Once you are known as a person with questionable character though, it is a tough label to shake. It is not unforgiveable though, and not irreversible. The way to change your character is by making that next decision with integrity. The sign outside the office area I am in says, “It is never too late to do the right thing.” I believe that whole-heartedly, and I am living proof that God can change a person’s character in the proper direction.

My hope for each of you is that you will to be known as a person who has great character. That it will be something you take pride in, not in an arrogant way, but in a way that communicates you hold it to be extremely important and valuable.

Just a Family Item

This was a nice thing for Travis this past week.

All-Ivy League selection

Tuesday, March 4, 2008

Character Moment #21 – February 27, 2008

I can remember growing up, that my folks would constantly remind me about being consistent with words and actions. Sometimes it was a whole lot easier for me to say one thing to them and then do another. The thing I would say is usually what I thought they would want to hear. It was quicker to mouth the words and then go about doing what I wanted to do any way. Fortunately, the thing I learned as I got older was that people did not respect a person who was, basically, a hypocrite. We were being judged by how our words and actions were aligned.

I would never want a school where we said we were about certain things, and then did completely the opposite. It is why we place an emphasis on Christian character development. The best way that I see words and actions aligning is when we are conscience about what we are filling ourselves with from outside influences. What we read, what we see, what we listen to; those things we expose ourselves to will come out when we find ourselves in a touch situation. That auto-response really can tell others about our true character.

There’s the story of a small boy who came home after school to fresh baked cookies. He loved a big glass of milk with those cookies, so he went to the refrigerator and poured himself a huge glass of milk to the very top. As he was carefully, slowly, walking back to the table to enjoy his snack, his older sibling came flying around the corner and crashed into him. The milk went flying everywhere and saturated the boy, covering the table and the floor.

What spills out of you when you get bumped? When things in life don’t go exactly the way you planned, how do you respond?

If we fill ourselves with good things, it is more likely those are the things that will spill out. Garbage in – Garbage out. Good stuff in – then good stuff out.

Paul said it this way in Philippians 4:8, “Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.”[1]

Basically he says, intentionally aspire to put these positive things in your mind and when you are bumped in life, that is what will spill out on others.



[1] New International Version (NIV) Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984 by International Bible Society

Character Moment #20 – February, 20, 2008

There is a big controversy brewing in Indiana these days. The head basketball coach at the University of Indiana has been charged with breaking NCAA violations on how coaches can contact recruits. The university president has given the athletic director until Friday to make a decision about the fate of the coach. The coach has continued to lead his team, but may have coached his last game. The team is tied for first place in the league. The players love the coach. The university has always taken pride in having a clean basketball program. What is the AD to do?

It sounds like a soap opera doesn’t it? The issue though is about the character of the coach. He left his last job under scrutiny and now finds himself in a mess again. The decision will not be an easy one, and it will surely be debated in the papers and on TV for weeks to come.

Being accused of cheating, or lying, or stealing is a major thing. If the allegations prove true, they ruin careers. Even if they are dismissed at times, they still can affect how people view a person’s career.

Having a set of standards by which we can all commit to helps us hold each other accountable in the area of honor. Our honor code was designed a few years ago to highlight what it means to be a Lancer. This honor code is hanging in each of your classrooms. It is a core value of all that takes place here at Orange Lutheran. Look around your room and focus in on the words.

HONOR CODE

Lutheran High School of Orange County is relentlessly committed to Christian character development of each student enrolled. An essential value that is at the heart of a strong Christian character is honesty. Each member of the Lutheran High School family is asked to assume responsibility for refraining from dishonorable conduct.

An honor offense is defined as an intentional act of lying, cheating, or stealing. Each student will commit to faithfully abide by this system of Honor and will subject themselves to negative consequences when they choose to surrender their honor.

As a member of the Lutheran High School family, I commit to relentlessly strive to:

Live honestly

Accept responsibility for my actions

Not to lie, cheat, or steal

Create and cultivate a safe environment

Establish a climate of integrity

Respect myself and others

Overall, I aim to be a person of honor, who values integrity, respect, and service as a redeemed child of Jesus Christ.

It is my hope for all of us that we strive to live honorably as a way to thank God for His love to us. May God give each of us the courage to be people of honor.

Friday, February 15, 2008

Character Moment #19 – February 13, 2008

I sat in chapel yesterday and listened intently to what Mr. Grasz shared about the several incidents of stealing that have occurred here at Orange Lutheran over the year. I wish I could say to folks that stuff like that doesn’t happen here, but in reality it unfortunately does.

It made me think about what I learned as a young boy at the Lutheran school I attended in Topeka, KS. When we learned the commandments, we also learned their meanings from the small catechism. Stealing is addressed in the seventh commandment.

The Seventh Commandment.

Thou shalt not steal.

What does this mean?

We should fear and love God that we may not take our neighbor's money or property, nor get them by false ware or dealing, but help him to improve and protect his property and business [that his means are preserved and his condition is improved].

The meaning to this commandment addresses the fact that we should not take another person’s property, or trick them out of their property. The thing I think that is so significant though is what it says next…really two commands.

We should help our neighbor to improve and protect his property and business. What it is really saying is that not only should we not take it by any means, but we should also help in any way to make it better. It is not only about the negative act of taking, but it addresses the positive…make your neighbor’s property or business better. We don’t always think of that.

I can remember on our honeymoon, my wife and I went to a nice restaurant up in the Monterey area. After we left the restaurant, my wife noticed that they had not charged us for the additional side order we had asked for later in the meal. It may sound silly, but I turned around and went back to the restaurant and took the additional money to our waitress. She was so thankful, because it was their policy to have the servers pay for any mistakes they made on their customer’s bill. In a way, we made her business a little better.

I don’t share that to be pious or holier than though. I share it because I will never forget her reaction. Let us be a school that makes each other better, not taking from one another.

Tuesday, February 12, 2008

Character Moment #18 – February 6, 2008

This weekend is Winter Formal.  It will be a great celebration at The Grove in Anaheim.  I know that our Student Leadership Team with Mr. Odle and Mrs. Webster has worked very hard to plan a wonderful evening.  It will be a night that culminates much preparation by the committee and the attendees.

 

I will always remember the second Winter Formal I chaperoned here at Orange Lutheran.  Two couples arrived late, and after speaking with folks at the gate where they entered, it was apparent they obviously had been drinking.  When their car was searched, several alcohol bottles were found and marijuana was found in the glove compartment.  It did not turn out the way they had hoped their evening would have when they planned it.  The students were removed from school under the zero tolerance policy.  It really was a sad day for so many concerned.

 

Ladies and gentleman, I do not want that scenario to happen to any of you.  I want our Winter Formal to be alcohol and drug free.  I would hope that all of you want the same thing for your friends and anyone who attends the dance.  If you are concerned about anyone in your group planning on using, please tell an adult (your counselor –a teacher – an administrator) before it is too late.

 

Saturday night should be a fun time.  We can honor God by our words and our actions.  We must be conscience though, that Satan would delight in nothing more than really messing up a good night, by encouraging bad decisions.  Let your character shine through by being an example of what God desires for you to be: before, during, and after the dance.

Friday, January 11, 2008

Character Moment #15 – January 9, 2008

Arthur Friedman once said…

"Men of genius are admired.
Men of wealth are envied.
Men of power are feared, but
only men of character are trusted."[1]

To be a person others can trust is an admirable thing. We all know those people in our lives that we can’t trust. It is typically because their words and their actions are inconsistent with each other. They tend to say things one way and act entirely different.

Trust is so key to our relationships in life. Many of you will one day marry, and trusting your spouse is key to a successful, lifelong marriage.

Over Christmas break, I went back to Kansas and celebrated my parents’ 50th wedding anniversary. It was a special day. To celebrate 50 years of marriage a lot has to happen. First, you have to live that long, and some couples don’t make it. Then, if you are fortunate to live that long, you have to be fortunate enough to endure the various bumps in the road that life brings to relationships. My folks shared that they always tried their best to communicate to one another. They also said that they trusted each other fully.

Think of your friendships here at school. Your closest friends are those you trust the most. To be trusted as a friend, a son, or a daughter, an employee, or a student is so critical for success in life. The most successful people, I believe, are those who are the most trusted.

If you have things in your life that cause others not to trust you, ask God to remove them. David did in Psalm 139: 23-24…

“23 Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. 24 See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.”[2]