Wednesday, December 19, 2007

Character Moment #14 – December 19, 2007

This is the last Character Moment of 2007 and I have one wish for all of us in 2008. As I have all year, it has been my hope to encourage the building of character within our school community. To truly build our character I believe that there is one source, and that is God’s Word. It is in His word where we find story after story about how God’s love restores people.

The Bible really is a love story. The more you know its words, the more you are reminded about how much God does love us.

With the New Year coming, I would like to challenge you to do something for maybe the first time. Before January 1, go find a bible. It might be the one you have for school use, but it can be any version. I have enjoyed, The Message, in the past. Then get a guide that gives you a daily reading. My wife works at The Bible House at Tustin and Katella and they have guides (and bibles) there. The guide should take you through the Bible in one year. An online source is www.backtothebible.org It offers many options to get you through the bible in a year.

Finally, take the 10-15 minutes max to read a little bit every day. I am getting ready to start my 11th year of this, and this daily ritual has truly changed my life. God’s Word is power. It is hard to explain, but your life will change!

Merry Christmas!

Monday, December 17, 2007

Character Moment #13 – December 12, 2007

One of things that I feel God calls us to be here at Orange Lutheran is different for Him. This does get acted out in many ways. Our conduct at games when we cheer for our team in a positive way instead of putting the other team or the officials down is one way. Another way is how we celebrate certain holidays.

With Christmas coming up soon, I think it is so important to use the words “Merry Christmas” instead of “Happy Holidays” or “Season’s Greetings.” We are inundated by all of the secular thoughts for the season. Think about the day after Thanksgiving. Thanksgiving is a day set aside to thank God for all the blessings He has bestowed upon us. Throughout the day we are bombarded by commercials that tell us that our favorite stores open the next day at 4 am for special sales. We are reminded all day long on the day we are to be thankful, that we don’t have it all. We need more. And, what do we now call that Friday? Black Friday. Incredible.

The Christmas season is that time we set aside to celebrate Christ’s birth. What has happened over the years though is that we take the Christ out of Christmas. I had an aunt that signed everything Merry Xmas. Merry X mas? Why?

Today we hear that people may be offended if we say Merry Christmas. I say, we should never compromise who we are. Christmas is about Christ. It should never be separated.

We get enough Santa and Happy Holidays outside of school. Let’s commit to wish each other Merry Christmas, thankful that Christ is in Christmas!

Wednesday, December 5, 2007

A Great Article

By now you may have seen the article in the Tuesday edition of the Los Angeles Times titled,

Coach knows it's first and life to go

Here is the link. It truly captures the character and honor of our head football coach, Jim Kunau.

http://www.latimes.com/news/local/la-me-parsons4dec04,1,6752567.column

Special thanks to the author, Dana Parsons.

Character Moment #12 – December 5, 2007

How important is it to admit a mistake? What about if no one would ever know, would you still admit you have messed up?

A friend of mine recently told me the story of a young man who works in the race car industry. The boy had been promoted to a very important position on the pit crew of a race team and had the responsibility to make sure the right tires went on the car in the right location. It seems simple enough, but it is critical because of the high speeds that the drivers travel in the cars.

Well he did not have a lot of training in this, and during the very first race he inadvertently put the tires on the wrong side of the car. Doesn’t sound like a big deal, but it could have been tragic.

After the race, which the driver lost, the boy mentioned to his other crew members that he had made a mistake. Their encouragement was that no one would know, kind of like “no harm – no foul.”

He couldn’t keep that inside though. He went to the driver and admitted his mistake and apologized for costing the driver the race. His teammates thought he would be chewed out for sure, maybe even lose his job. The driver though, thanked him for his honesty. The driver knew he had learned through his mistake and that he would never make that mistake again. When your life rests in the hands of others, you want to know that they take their responsibility seriously.

Ephesians 4:25 from The Message[1] says, “What this adds up to, then, is this: no more lies, no more pretense. Tell your neighbor the truth. In Christ's body we're all connected to each other, after all. When you lie to others, you end up lying to yourself.”



[1] The Message (MSG) Copyright © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene H. Peterson

Character Moment #11 – November 28, 2007

I had a professor at Cal State Fullerton several years ago when I was getting my Master’s degree who used to say…

“People tend to do what they want to do.”

What he meant was that many times, people will have an excuse for not doing something, like I should exercise more, or I should eat better, when in reality it is truly because they don’t want to do those things. This particular professor challenged us to take responsibility for our actions and not make excuses.

When I first heard those words I had to really reflect on why I did or didn’t do certain things. I didn’t exercise because I chose not to set aside the time to do it. Instead of saying I didn’t have time to do something; I was actually choosing not to do it.

It made me think about what I want to be known as. The scholar, Aristotle, once said, “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.”

If we want to be known as a person of honor, we need to act as an honorable person. If we want to be known as a respectful person, we need to show others respect in all situations. As Aristotle said, if you want to be a person that strives for excellence, then you need to have that approach in everything you do. What we tend to do, that defines our character.

Former New York Governor, Mario Cuomo said, “Every time I've done something that doesn't feel right, it's ended up not being right.” God has given each of us a conscience, and we would be better off at times if we listened to that inner voice and made our decisions accordingly.

Tuesday, November 20, 2007

Personal Note :-) - Yale Basketball

The Yale basketball team plays Stanford University tonight in Palo Alto. The game is broadcast on Fox Bay area - DirecTV channel 654. Friday night, Yale plays UCLA at Pauley Pavillion.

You can check up on Travis and his teammates at...

Happy Thanksgiving

May God bless each of you as you celebrate the gifts He provides every day!

Character Moment #9 – November 7, 2007

I’ll never forget last year’s Super Bowl – Chicago versus Indianapolis. Two great teams with great players and great coaches.

The game was hyped in a number of different ways. Can Peyton Manning win the big game? Can an indoor stadium team (Indianapolis) beat a team that plays outdoors (Chicago)? Watch the first Super Bowl where both head coaches are African American. Can the student (Lovie Smith) beat his teacher (Tony Dungy)?

The most memorable part of the game, won by Indianapolis, happened before the game was actually played. In an ad placed in USA Today on the Friday before the game, Coach Dungy and Coach Smith declared their faith in Jesus Christ. A newspaper captured it like this.

“Dungy was up against his protégé and fellow believer Smith for the big win on Sunday. Both he and Smith had already made history going into the Super Bowl as the first African American head coaches.

Smith called the event a "perfect stage" for the coaches to confess their faith in Jesus Christ in a video shown at Saturday's breakfast. Both coaches appeared in a USA Today ad on Friday with a message (that) said, "We're pro football coaches, but we are also men of faith. A faith that defines who we are. It comforts us in tough times and produces hope in the midst of adversity. It is through our common faith in Jesus Christ that we have individually experienced God’s love and forgiveness."

When the game ended on Sunday, the two historic coaches hugged midfield. Dungy told his friend how proud he was of the whole moment, according to the Associated Press, and that he appreciates the type of person Smith is and what he has done in Chicago.”[1]

On the eve of the biggest stage of their career, they gave the glory to their Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. They acknowledged that they found joy in Christ’s love and forgiveness. They knew the true victory was done for them when Jesus rose from the dead. Even though others wanted to make the moment about them, they acknowledged the One who gave them the moment.

Tony Dungy said that their worth was not from something that man had created. He said that he and Coach Smith were “men of faith” produced by, “a faith that defines who we are.” That is the same for you and me. Our faith in Jesus Christ is what defines our true character – who we are when no one is looking.

Sunday, October 28, 2007

Character Moment #7 – October 24, 2007

It has been said that the only things you can control are “attitude” and “effort.” The volleyball coach from Oregon State[1] said it this way, “You control both of these. No matter where you are in your skill development, physical conditioning and/or mental state your attitude and effort are factors that you alone can control.” Our third President, Thomas Jefferson, said “"Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude." [2]

We all know people that have had a “hard” life. If something bad is going to happen, it seems like it is going to happen to them. I have known people like that, and if they dwell on what they don’t have it is really a downer, for them and for you.

A friend told me a long time ago that life is like a card game. The deck of cards is all the possibilities that can happen in life and we are all dealt a hand to play. Some of our cards are great and easy to play, but others are more difficult. The only rule to the game is we need to play our own hands.

The thing I have learned over the years is that everyone has some poor cards in their hands. For some people though, you would never know it because of their attitude. They choose to bring a positive attitude to everything they do. These are the people you want to be around. These are the people that make others around them better. These are the people that praise God for every moment.

Zig Ziglar, a famous motivational speaker warned against hanging around people with bad attitudes when he said, “"Life is too short to spend your precious time trying to convince a person who wants to live in gloom and doom otherwise. Give lifting that person your best shot, but don't hang around long enough for his or her bad attitude to pull you down. Instead, surround yourself with optimistic people." [3]

A person’s attitude reveals their character. We can be people who are positive and enthusiastic because we have a God who is bigger than any situation we face. Mark 10:27 states, "With man this is impossible, but not with God; all things are possible with God."[4] Believing this wholeheartedly will give us a positive attitude that is infectious to those around us.

Sunday, October 14, 2007

Character Moment #6 – October 10, 2007

This week we begin play in the Trinity League. As a member school of this outstanding league we want to uphold some very high standards as we attend and host games throughout the year. We join each school of the league, J Serra, Mater Dei, Rosary, Santa Margarita, Servite, and St. John’s Bosco as schools that have high standards and strive for excellence in all that we do. Each game we play will test our athletes and coaches to perform and compete at the highest level.

As exciting as each game will be, we want to be sure that our enthusiasm does not compromise who we are as representatives of Christ love for His people. I know our athletes will play hard and that our coaches will help their teams grow in character on and off the field. That same drive needs to be evident by all that attend the games and cheer on their friends and fellow Lancers.

Our state athletic association, CIF, has issued some rules for good behavior that can serve as our guide. These guidelines should set the minimum standard for our behavior at games. The full list will be posted in your classrooms and the gym. Some of the encouragements that are listed include:

  • Show Class — Live and cheer with class. Be a good sport. Be gracious in victory and accept defeat with dignity, compliment extraordinary performance, and show sincere respect for all competitors.
  • Don’t show Disrespectful Conduct — Don’t engage in disrespectful conduct of any sort including profanity, obscene gestures, offensive remarks of a sexual nature, trash-talking, taunting, boastful celebrations, or other actions that demean individuals or the sport. Do not participate in any negative or demeaning cheers.
  • Show Respect for Officials — Treat game officials with respect. Don’t complain or argue about calls or decisions during or after an athletic event.
  • Show Respect for Coaches Treat coaches with respect at all times. Recognize that they have team goals beyond those of one athlete. Do not shout instructions to players from the stands. Let the coaches coach.
  • Show Respect for Fellow Spectators — Display respect for all other spectators. Do not insult or fight with other fans. Wait for breaks in the action before leaving or returning to your seat.

I know some of these games can generate adrenaline and strong emotion, but we need to remember that we are representing Jesus Christ through our actions, and we are also representing Orange Lutheran High School. Last night in the girls volleyball match against Mater Dei, we had great crowd support, and except for an isolated incident of poor sportsmanship, our fans added much to the environment. However, two weeks ago several in our student section chose to “boo” the Los Alamitos cheer leaders when they came over at halftime. That is unacceptable. That message that is sent in that situation is always negative.

I want you to be proud to be Lancers. Let’s do that with loud positive support that adds to an event, not take away from it.

We have a great opportunity given to us at every game to show the visiting schools and their fans that we are different for Him. That witness may help others get to know that you can follow Christ and still compete at a high level.

Monday, October 8, 2007

Great Gala

The 5th annual gala held Saturday night, October 6, was truly a night to remember. I was so proud to be a part of our school community. The fellowship, the auction, the entertainment, and the food all made for an outstanding evening.

The talent of our students here at Orange Lutheran never ceases to amaze me. From our singers to instrumentalists, our musicians are exceptional. We will be enjoying several repeat performances in chapel on Thursday, October 11.

A special thanks to all who gave of their time, talents, and treasure to make for a wonderful evening. To God be the glory!

Wednesday, October 3, 2007

Character Moment #5 – October 3, 2007

Last week I spoke about the importance of a leader being a good communicator. I want to share one more quick thought on this. Communication, as I stated, is speaking, writing and listening. I had shared that listening was sometimes the toughest. A new friend of mine shared with me the following thoughts about listening.

He writes, “The word LISTEN is an Anagram to the word SILENT. During my presentations I talk about the value of being SILENT as you LISTEN. Keeping your mind, body and soul SILENT as you LISTEN during life improves your ability to communicate on many levels.

Some of the most influential leaders in my life have demonstrated this well. They are silent as they take in and comprehend what is being told to them. Once a leader has all the information available and understands the situation fully, then they can begin to successfully work through any given situation.”[1]

These were great words to dwell on. Being a good listener is about being silent and letting the other party speak. In our faith walk, there are times it is critical for us to “be still” as the Bible says, “and know that He is God.”[2]

There is a great story from 1 Kings 19 about the prophet Elijah. Elijah had just killed the prophets of Baal and then he fled to get away from the evil King Ahaz and his wife Jezebel. He came to a cave after travelling for a long time and God met him there.

“Then the word of God came to him: "So Elijah, what are you doing here?" "I've been working my heart out for the God-of-the-Angel-Armies," said Elijah. "The people of Israel have abandoned your covenant, destroyed the places of worship, and murdered your prophets. I'm the only one left, and now they're trying to kill me.” “Then he was told, "Go, stand on the mountain at attention before God. God will pass by." A hurricane wind ripped through the mountains and shattered the rocks before God, but God wasn't to be found in the wind; after the wind an earthquake, but God wasn't in the earthquake; and after the earthquake fire, but God wasn't in the fire; and after the fire a gentle and quiet whisper. When Elijah heard the quiet voice, he muffled his face with his great cloak, went to the mouth of the cave, and stood there. A quiet voice asked, "So Elijah, now tell me, what are you doing here?"[3] Elijah again explained, and God revealed to him that he wasn’t alone, but He had preserved 7000 others who hadn’t bowed down to Baal.

Being still for God and listening for His voice is a key character trait for any Christian leader.



[1] Lieutenant Patrick Thayer from the Orange Police Department

[2] Psalm 46:10 NIV

[3] 1 Kings 19:10-14 (The Message)

Thursday, September 27, 2007

Tips on Text Messaging

Dear Mr. Pinick,

I have a quick question that seems to be coming up with quite a few of us Moms! How much do you feel, is too much text messaging? I understand that it is one of the primary social networks of teens etc… but it seems like it goes on constantly (except in class of course). So far, I’m not seeing my student’s grades suffer or a lack of face to face social skills but it still seems like a kind of obsession with the kids. Any guidance would be appreciated.

A concerned Mom

Dear Mom,

Several things can be checked on and you mentioned a couple to see if your child is texting too much. Are their grades suffering? Do you notice their one-to-one skills diminishing? How late in the evening is the texting occurring? These are areas to monitor. Texting is the way so many of our kids converse, my own included. I think you should set boundaries, such as no texting (sending or receiving) after a certain time in the evening, or during dinner, or at inappropriate times. You can monitor all of this by looking at the bill each month. The time messages are sent and received are listed. Remind your kids that cell phones are a privilege, not a right. :-)

You might also want to purchase only a certain number of messages a month and then have the kids be responsible for any overages. At ten cents for each extra message, this could encourage more responsible use as well. Here is an article I found from the Seattle Times on this topic. I hope it helps.

http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/living/2003644903_textsleep31.html

be God’s,

Gregg Pinick

Wednesday, September 26, 2007

Character Moment #4 – September 26, 2007

The third leadership trait that I’d like to highlight today is communication. A leader needs to be one who is a good communicator. It has been said that communication is life’s number one skill.[i] I believe it is fundamental to being successful in one’s life. So much of who we are is based upon our ability to be able to communicate our points of view in a positive way.

Communication sometimes is broken down into two areas: speaking and writing. What I have learned over the years is that being a good listener is just as vital as the other two. Many times more is communicated to others when you spend time listening to them instead of trying to fix their problems.

How do you get better at communicating? For some it comes very natural, even too easily. But for most people, speaking in front of people just takes practice. Even though you might not always feel comfortable doing it, challenge yourself to accept the opportunities to speak to others when asked. That might be as simple as helping lead the prayer in your classroom or at home during dinner.

People become better writers by writing. Journaling is good practice, and a safe place to express yourself. Many adults keep journals and look back on them from time to time to help clarify their thoughts.

Listening sometimes is the toughest, because we all have the tendency to want to put our two cents worth in on a conversation. Being a good listener though is a valuable trait. As you grow older and develop deeper relationships, you’ll see how listening is something to be valued.

Our faith walk grows as we listen to God. It grows as we speak with Him. And, it grows when we can write our thoughts down about Him and reflect on those words.

David communicated his love for God when he wrote Psalm 8[ii]

1O LORD, our Lord, how majestic is your name in all the earth! …
3 When I consider your heavens, the work of your fingers, the moon and the stars, which you have set in place,

4 what is man that you are mindful of him, the son of man that you care for him?

5 You made him a little lower than the heavenly beings and crowned him with glory and honor.

Thursday, September 20, 2007

Turning Right from the Left Turn Lane?

Several parents have asked me if it is okay to turn right onto Santiago Boulevard from the left hand turn lane when exiting the Orange Lutheran parking lot. My answer to them has been yes with the following disclaimers. It is imperative that the car turning right on the inside lane is aware of your actions. You should always use you signal indicators. And finally, you should be sure that no pedestrians or bicycle riders are coming up against the traffic on Santiago, either on the sidewalk or on the street.

There are those times that exiting to the right is the only option to keep traffic flowing smoothly, especially when the center turn lane on Santiago is full, prohibiting left turns.

Thank you for your cooperation and safety awareness.

Character Moment #3 – September 19, 2007

Another character trait that all leaders possess is respect. The true leader is respectful of others. Respect really deals with the value we place on someone. If we respect someone, we communicate that we value them and hold them in high regard. We try to build them up, not tear them down.

A better measure for respect is how we act towards a person that is weaker than ourselves or a person we don’t like. It is easy to respect someone like a boss or a person in a position of authority over ourselves (a teacher or a parent.) It is much more difficult to respect someone smaller, weaker, and younger than ourselves. When a person does show respect to a person of less stature, it means more, because they have nothing to gain from the relationship by being nice.

When you have authority, you shouldn’t lord it over someone else. Jesus taught this concept to His disciples. His model was that of a servant leader. Serving others is a way to measure your respect for them. As the Apostle Paul said in Philippians 2:5-8[i], Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus: Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be grasped, but made himself nothing, taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself and became obedient to death—even death on a cross!”

The legendary basketball coach, John Wooden, once said, “Respect a man, and he will do all the more.” He knew that people will do more for you when they feel respected by you.

It is my hope that our respect for one another, for others outside our community, and for the property God gives to us to use will grow this year. Being known as a respectful person is a trait that will help you in many ways in the future.



[i] New International Version (NIV) Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984 by International Bible Society

Saturday, September 15, 2007

Back to School Night Handout

The following information was distributed to parents that attended my presentation on Wednesday night.

What’s New @ Orange Lutheran?

September 12, 2007

Year three in our efforts to improve student learning…

1 Block Schedule

o Red, White, and Gold Days (only 3 this year)

o Fewer transitions during the school day – fewer books to carry

o Calmer climate and environment

2 Later starts on Wednesdays

o Teachers (and staff soon) involved in Professional Learning Teams

o Peer Tutoring offered

o Room 200, the Library, and the Counseling Dept. waiting areas are open to students before school and during lunch.

3 Faculty involved in Professional Learning Communities

o Sole focus - every week discussing how to enhance student learning

o Homogenous groupings

o Systematic Instructional Inquiry – intentional discussions on how to enhance student learning – like other professions

4 One Lunch period – earlier in the day a Longer Break w/ breakfast food options

o Two serving lines – everyone served in 20 minutes

o Students eat with their friends

o Lunch does not have to be rushed

o Time for clubs/meeting

o Improved access to teachers – office hours

o Peer Tutoring

5 Buying textbooks

o End of year you set your price to resell to someone else or sell at the resale days back to varsitybooks.com

o Some of you shopped prices – varsitybooks.com is the easy route – one stop shopping

o Google(ing) the ISBN number offers a host of vendors.

o Looking to move up scheduling process to early August to help in buying books

6 Orange Lutheran Online – OLO

o Flexibility in scheduling - Alternate system of delivering courses

o 121 On-campus students

o 8 Blended students (4 classes on-campus, 3 online throughout the year)

o 10 Single course students

o 42 Fulltime students (each taking 3 courses)

o 39 students from 7 Partnership Schools

o 31 teachers/classes - 324 Seats filled – Fall Sem 1

7 Athlete’s PE

o Makes better use of facilities and students’ time during the school day

o Spreads out class scheduling evenly throughout the day (balance)

o Allows some students to go home earlier which enables earlier and additional hours for study

o Facilitates compliance to the performance program by all athletes

o Provides better coach to athlete ratio during performance training – 827 athletes

o Provides educational time for athletes during the in-season

8 Technology

o Projectors, creating a wireless environment, increased bandwidth

Other Changes,,,

9 Mission trips – this past year New Orleans, Mexico, and Malawi

o See Mr. Maietta outside Room 203 for more info

10 Improved Communication:

o Website: www.lhsoc.org

o Lancer Link – web-based - grades and attendance – updated each Monday evening

o LL phones home! or emails re: grades and attendance

o Email to those signed in – important announcements

o e411 - log onto the website and leave your email – it will be emailed monthly

11 Parking

o Seniors on site / Sophomores and Juniors @ Sears – 120 spots

1 No neighborhood parking unless in a driveway with a relative or friend / No soliciting for parking

2 Be good neighbors in am and pm

o Importance for arriving a little earlier – by 7:07 in/out – Wed (by 8:07)

o Age restrictions for drivers hauling other passengers

o Increased Supervision - Campus Security (3) / security cameras installed (28)

12 Staff Changes - Mrs. Leslie Smith – Assistant Principal – x672 leslie.smith@lhsoc.org

What Hasn’t Changed…

1 Our Purpose - Help Students Internalize the Gospel message of salvation in Christ Jesus

2 Our Values

o Excellence in Christian Character Development

o Respect / Honor / Service

o Excellence in Academics

o Excellence in Competition and Performance

3 Our Love for your children

Mr. Gregg Pinick – Principal – x602 – pinick@lhsoc.org

Administrative Assistant - Mrs. Judith Lavigne – 714.998.5151, x619 – lavigne@lhsoc.org

Wednesday, September 12, 2007

Character Moment #2 – September 12, 2007

Over the next few weeks I am going to spend our time together talking briefly about character traits that all leaders possess. Now you might be thinking that you are not a leader. However, all of us have been or will find ourselves in leadership situations.

A famous leadership speaker, John Maxwell, defined leadership as influence. Even the most timid person influences over 10,000 people in their lifetime. Though many people have been given the gift of leadership, there are attributes that anyone can learn and practice to improve their leadership abilities.

The trait I would like to emphasize today is TRUST. Being a person who is trusted by others is key to being a leader. If a person can trust you, they know that you are a person they can have confidence in to keep your word.

Trust is also a key part of relationships. Think about your best friend. It is a person you can trust with your feelings, with your secrets, with your thoughts. You trust them because you know they won’t belittle you or use your openness and honesty against you.

Losing a person’s trust can be a hurtful thing. As a high school student, many of you long for your parent’s trust. When that is lost, at a time after making a poor choice, it hurts and takes some time to restore. You may even lose privileges until that trust is back to where it once was. Relationships fail when the trust is violated.

Thank the Lord we have a God who can be trusted. Even our money reminds us, “In God we trust.” As Christians, trusting God is walking by faith and not by sight.

Psalm 62:7 from The Message says…
“My help and glory are in God —granite-strength and safe-harbor-God— so trust him absolutely, people; lay your lives on the line for him. God is a safe place to be.”
[1]

May each of you grow in your ability to be a person that others can trust. It will insure better relationships in your future.



[1] The Message, Copyright © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene H. Peterson. NavPress