There is a great story told by Michael Josephson[1], who writes many articles on character. When doing a radio call-in show about cheating, a man named Stan called in to mock his concern.
(Stan) “He cheated to get into college, he said. He cheated in college to get a job. And now he occasionally cheats on his job to get ahead. In fact, he concluded, cheating is such an important life skill that parents ought to teach their kids how to do it.
Evidence is mounting that lots of people share Stan's amoral (unethical) pragmatism (matter-of-factness). Because they define success and happiness in terms of getting what they want when they want it, ethics (principles) seems irrational. After all, in a world where cheaters so often prosper, why should anyone give up the benefits of dishonesty?
Well, for one thing, the Stans of the world have no idea the price they're paying for the little they're getting. A life without principles is demeaning and self-defeating. The Stans of the world are cheated as often as they deceive others. What's more, they victimize themselves. As they scrape and struggle to fill their lives, they give up their chance to lead fulfilling lives.
The happiest people I know are those who find purpose and meaning pursuing a grander vision of a good life measured in terms of worthiness, not net worth. Virtue is not a tactic; it's a life philosophy.
We paint the self-portrait we call our character by our values and actions. We can choose to render that likeness in the pale watercolors of shallow successes and short-lived pleasures or in the deep, rich oils of honor, spirituality, peace of mind, and self-respect. The enduring impact of our choices is not what we get, but what we become.”
In Proverbs 22:1, Solomon wrote, “A sterling reputation is better than striking it rich; a gracious spirit is better than money in the bank.” [2]
[1] The Self-Portrait Called Character 529.2 - Commentaries by Michael Josephson - Week 529 August 24-30, 2007
[2] The Message, Copyright © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene H. Peterson. NavPress
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